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Joining in Light Zoom Expression Sessions

Joining in Light Zoom Expression Sessions

Dear Beloveds,
Thank you for the many opportunities to join in truth over the last few weeks.

I am available for in person and zoom joining sessions so please contact me as the Spirit/inspiration guides your heart.

Many beings/mighty companions have expressed interest in joining in facilitated expression sessions.  There are two upcoming facilitated Zoom Joining in Light Sessions for Expressing/Clearing beliefs.

The meetings begin at 6:30 pm for those who have not participated in a session before in order to explain/review the clarity process. You can read more detailed guidelines here:  https://livingmiraclescenter.org/clarityprocess.pdf

Basically the Steps for Listening through the Heart are:

  1. Facilitator opens the session with a prayer/Reading inviting the Holy Spirit and offering all thoughts and beliefs to the light of Truth.
  2. Those interested in sharing take turns expressing their thoughts/emotions to be given to the Holy Spirit for reinterpretation.
  3. During the session all participants offer love/light/openness/gratitude/silence for all expressions as "I am only here to be truly helpful" and commit to True Empathy and Forgiveness. We stand together in the Light of love and Truth. This is “Be still and Know that I am God.” - the practice of presence- a deep listening through the heart, empty, open, receptive, welcoming, free, undefined. dropping all ideas about the world. A deep listening beyond the words spoken. This is unconditional love- giving and receiving are one.
  4. When complete with sharing, say "I am complete."
  5. After sharing there is a pause for 30 seconds before the next person shares. This is an opportunity for some to feel the shift in perception and/or hear the words of Spirit in the heart.
  6. Typically there is no feedback/comments on expression, except by the facilitator. It is ok for being who is sharing to request support/clarity from the facilitator if it feels needed.
  7. The next being shares until all who desire to share complete sharing.
  8. Closing Prayer.

In this the recognition arises: This is the Holiest place on earth.

A Note about Sharing

What is shared is shared in full responsibility for thoughts- the recognition that the “problem is an idea in the mind and not outside/due to another" -meaning using language such as “I feel x” ...“my thoughts about this are…”. While a story can be helpful to get the flow going the main focus is internal, for example “when this person does x, I feel and/or think x”. So the expression is not a projection about what an “other” is thinking or feeling, rather, it is a sharing of the feeling and the interpretation in the mind that denies love that is here now. All the power is in the recognition of feeling that is not peace in this moment and expressing/releasing the beliefs/thoughts associated with that feeling.

It just came that these are “Listening through the Heart” sessions. How beautiful!!

A. Tuesday May 29, 2018 6:30 pm

Zoom Link:  Session complete

B. Friday June 1, 2018 6:30 pm

C. Tuesday June 5, 2018, 6:30 pm.

If you feel the inspiration to go deeper with clearing blocks to love's awareness here is a recent blog post that covers some tools that have been provided by Spirit:

http://joininginlight.net/expression-and-clearing-the-blocks-to-unconditional-love/

There will be a full day Joining in Light Retreat in Houston June 2. There are limited spaces available, so if you are interested please inquire.  If there is more interest than spaces available for this day retreat and you would like to host a future event, please email me.

In gratitude and love,

Cay

Joining in Light Zoom Expression Sessions2021-04-04T13:04:29-05:00

Expression and Clearing the Blocks to Unconditional Love

Expression and Clearing the Blocks to Unconditional Love

Through the recognition of the Holy Instant it is seen that true nature is timeless, changeless, formless and without limit.  The habit of identification with thoughts/beliefs and emotions are a trick within consciousness to experience "otherness" - the denial of formless, timeliness and unchanging nature. Consciousness expressing as form is an expression of the formless, unconditional love- "God is in everything I see". As long as there is the desire to experience limitation, consciousness will appear to be a body and "other" objects in the world. In this trick, God, our true nature, feels dead.  Yet this is fueled by a hidden deep desire not to feel (deny) our true nature. This is an impossible attempt to "reject" true nature and thus feels painful.

The unseen (as in 'not seen with the eyes') part of consciousness that contributes to the feeling of limitation lies in the unconscious mind below the level of awareness.  At the deepest level is the desire not to recognize totality- unlimited nature.  Thoughts arising with the associated energy of desire (experienced as having a charge- the illusory experience of contraction or limitation) are beliefs. These beliefs - charged thoughts - show up/express as emotions such as hatred, anger, frustration, aloneness, sadness, etc. - any form of pleasure or pain are a denial of infinite nature.

In order to experience separation - to sense objects in the world through perception- there must be deep hidden emotions and thus beliefs that "fuel" the experience of perceiving a body and objects in the world. Thus all sensory experience- taste, touch, smell, hearing... is fueled by the emotional charge that comes from the desire not to know infinite nature that is already here. Thus desires/beliefs are the "fuel" of attempted limitation and are the blocks to the awareness of unconditional love.

Yet all thoughts and sensations arise only because everything arises in Love (Thoughts leave not their Source), and thus when seen in the light of totality point back only to totality- infinite unconditional Love. Thus everything that arises is traceable back to the light within. Thus the retranslation/ reinterpretation by the Holy Spirit of all thoughts is to live the direct experience of all (sensory) experience pointing back always to unlimited, timeless nature, rather than an ongoing attempt to "prove" that a limited body exists in time separate from "other" objects and thus from God- Source.

Thus allowing these subconscious beliefs to arise in aware consciousness for reinterpretation releases the feeling/experience of being bound as a person separate from the world.  This is why the miracle - the change in perception through forgiveness - seeing thoughts as untrue is the cornerstone of A Course in Miracles.

Thus expressing emotions and seeing the unconscious beliefs that are fueling them - allowing emotions and beliefs to arise from the unconscious mind into conscious awareness is essential for freedom from the feeling of limitation- the imagined self as separate from God.

Often just noticing when peace is absent and asking to be shown the blocks-the thoughts/beliefs with willingness to see things another way is all that is needed.  What follows are some helpful tools for uncovering and releasing beliefs when conditioned patterns of thoughts/beliefs and emotions that may seem to persistent. These patterns are often revealed in re-occuring stories that seem to run in loops when the mind feels "busy". These methods are powerful uses of time to discover timeless nature.

Starting early in June I am open to traveling to help Course study groups that have the desire to go deeper in uncovering and releasing blocks and would like assistance with starting to use any of the tools described below for expression.  I am also be available to support groups via Zoom after May 15, 2018.

  1. Joining in Light- Joining in Light is a very quick, gentle and simple way to join together to see what is true, as inner light is true identity. The power of the teaching is to look to the light first and then place any thoughts and emotions in the light of truth.  It is described in the blog post: Simple form of Joining  An example is provided in a blog post The Light Pours through.  A brief description of the steps can be found Joining In Light Handout. Essentially the steps are:  Focus on the light, place the thought/emotions in the light with the request to be shown another way, rest in silence to hear what the Holy Spirit's interpretation. In an upcoming blog I will share how Joining in Light was given by Jesus. It is suitable for one on one and group sessions to bring emotions and beliefs to the light. Joining in Light is very helpful with Mighty Companions and when working thoughts alone in a journal - the Holy Spirit/Jesus/the Light within is always available!
  2.  Joining in Light Worksheets.  If assistance is needed Joining in Light worksheets can be helpful for uncovering blocks. The long form with description using ACIM text is here: Joining in Light Explained.   The short version (single page) can be found here: Joining in Light Miracle Worksheet.
  3. Spiri - Spiri is an absolutely adorable way to quickly uncover the blocks to love's awareness (beliefs) for forgiveness.  It is an online bot that is found on Facebook.  Follow the steps (20 minutes) and find peace!
  4. Expression Sessions- Group.  These are sessions where groups of Course students gather to hold presence for each other to allow  any emotions and thoughts that are "charged" and/or seem to repeat (the hallmark of the experience of limitation) arise to be cleared/forgiven. The Group holds the light while participants share. It is helpful for the first sessions to have a facilitator to keep the group on track.  Living Miracles has a process called the clarity process that can be followed. Clarity process.  This can be a very powerful/helpful way of quickly clearing many thoughts- since the idea of limitation is shared by all and so every belief exposed supports the whole.  Please contact me if you need a facilitator to help get your ACIM group started.
  5. Expression Sessions - One on One.  These are sessions are similar to group session where two or more Course students connect to hold presence for each other while any emotions and thoughts that are "charged" and/or seem to repeat (the hallmark of the experience of limitation) can be exposed/expressed for forgiveness. It is essential to be with beings who are devoted to forgiveness - seeing what is true, rather than projection.  As the skill and willingness to express increases there is tremendous joy in any conversation with a Might Companion because there is availability to all expressions without judgement so the clearing of judgement is rapid and ongoing as it arises. And this eventually translates to conversations with all beings. Please contact me if you help getting started.
  6. Journaling -  Journaling is a helpful way to write down all the emotions at the thoughts that are coming with the emotions.  The thoughts can then be spoken to a mighty companion, or here are three worksheets that can be helpful.
    1. Joining in Light Miracle Worksheet 
    2. Living Miracles Levels of Mind and Instrument for Peace Worksheet.
    3. Byron Katie Judge Your Neighbor Worksheet  I have not used this worksheet; however, many have found Byron's work helpful so this is provided here.  Jesus has revealed many similar principles found in this sheet that I have found to be helpful.

I have journaled many thoughts and beliefs and find this to be very helpful -often emailing them to Mighty Companions as a symbol of deep trust and turning them over to the Holy Spirit.  As understanding increases that emotions and beliefs are a self limiting choice and thus drive the feeling of separation they are noticed more rapidly and thus can quickly be given  over to the Holy Spirit for re-interpretation.

In gratitude and love always,

Cay

 

Expression and Clearing the Blocks to Unconditional Love2021-04-04T13:04:29-05:00

Questions that accept or deny Divinity

Questions that accept or deny Divinity

Questions were made as a form of denial of the only answer that has any meaning- Divine nature.

The ego asks questions and desires answers as a distraction from recognizing what is always here, unconditional love, which has no questions and simultaneously is the answer to every question. There are questions of the ego that seemingly go out – to look for solutions in the world in an attempt to prove the world is true– and questions that point inward toward the revelation of divine nature. Thus there are questions for delaying the recognition of what is true and questions for recognizing what is true.

Questions are a time bound construct and the ego answers questions with other time bound constructs. They are designed to perpetuate the ongoing experience of a feeling of lack. A feeling of lack is the experience of time- the idea/illusion that fullness and peace will be experienced in the future. The ego is the mechanism for questioning that induces an experience of doubt of divinity and then seems to “provide and answer” by “collecting information” about the "outside world" to give the illusion of safety- while actually being a defense.  This is the idea that something “known” is safety, yet this is a denial that the answer is already given. Seeming to know "something" creates the illusion of subject-object experience. This occurs in the illusion of time.

Questions through the “wrong mind”- the egoic thought system– are synonymous with biting from the apple of the tree of knowledge of good and evil. Questions are a secret means to induce self doubt and thus support a feeling of lack that denies true nature. They are an “investment” in the continual experience of separation from God and thus a form of attack. Divine nature is here. The ego's only answer to wrong minded question is some experience of lack now. Thus it is impossible to discover Life through egoic thoughts and questions that arise from wrong mindedness. Yet it is understood through the benevolence of the Holy Spirit –the simultaneous answer to the first question that arose in response to identification with thought of a body and a world – that the denial of divine nature is deeply hidden in the subconscious mind. Thus questions used in purpose of the Holy Spirit are a function of right mindedness and point back to where there are no questions, to the only answer that has any meaning – divine nature. There is only what is.

I said before that the Holy Spirit is the Answer. He is the Answer to everything, because He knows what the answer to everything is. The ego does not know what a real question is, although it asks an endless number. Yet you can learn this as you learn to question the value of the ego, and thus establish your ability to evaluate its questions. 8:IX.1

Thus while the ego's questions are a means to question God/Divine nature – the habit of self imposed experience of limitation– all the focus of questioning in ACIM is questioning the truth of thought system of the ego- the idea of separation from God. Thus the Holy Spirit - the symbol of right mindedness-- uses self reflective questions that when carefully considered are revelatory in that they point inward toward the recognition of Divine nature.

Forgiveness is a means of questioning what is believed to be true in the thought system of separation. Forgiveness is a means of asking the question, "Is this idea true?" and asks the Holy Spirit- true identity-- for an answer-- "What is true?" It breaks the habit of identification with a false, limited identity. It points back to "Who am I really?"  What is true right now in direct experience? The ego thought system is designed to obscure this direct looking. In truth the ego, or sense of personal identity cannot answer the "Who am I?" question nor the "What is true?" question. It is important to emphasize that the answer to these questions of Spirit is only an admission of what is always true, beyond the habit of identification with the idea of a personal identity.

The revelation from "inward" pointing questions is that what is here is timeless, formless, changeless, unlimited, undying and unborn ever shining as joy, peace and happiness. Thus pointing far beyond the idea of personal identity. The ego is a self imposed agreement to feel limited and thus cannot recognize what is unlimited.  The idea of limitation arises in what is unlimited. Forgiveness, by questioning the validity of the limitations/questions of the ego and "washing away" the feeling (change in perception), leaves only what is unlimited.

The ego asks/believes questions are true and are an attempt deny the deep desire to feel separate- a deflection from recognizing truth of identity now. This is the face of Innocence that is discussed in A Course In Miracles.

This is the face that smiles and charms and even seems to love. It searches for companions and it looks, at times with pity, on the suffering, and sometimes offers solace. It believes that it is good within an evil world. (2:7-9)

Questions of the ego are a form of seeking with underlying desire to delay the recognition of truth (seek but do not find).

Questions of the ego/Death/Face of Innocence

How or why did this happen? The presupposition is that something has happened and that separation is possible.

Why is this happening to me? The assumption of a “me” – something happening to an object – body.

Why won't my mind stop?  Why do I feel attacked by the mind? The desire for the mind/thoughts/identity and the belief that attack is possible.

Questions of the Spirit

I am not a body, what am I?

Who am I?

Can the perceiver be perceived?

What is it for?  (purpose to support the thought system of the ego or to accept divinity/the Holy Spirit)

Through mind training and forgiveness there is more clarity for careful and deep reflections on the questions of Spirit.  In this reflection - silent reflection- going naked to God- it is revealed that divine nature is objectless and thus there is no "relative" world of a body and "other" objects.  The power of what is already here- unconditional love- shines untouched by anything of this world.  It is an admission that separation is impossible. This is recognition of the kingdom of Heaven within.

In gratitude and love,

Cay

 

Questions that accept or deny Divinity2021-04-04T13:04:29-05:00

Customs Counter Holy Encounter

Customs Counter Holy Encounter

I’ve realized that Jesus has a really a great sense of humor. I was returning to the US from Mexico and the flight was very peaceful. As I was filling out the Customs declaration form for re-entry into the US a few thoughts arose about having to declare some spices that I had purchased.  I didn’t really want to declare them yet didn’t want to throw them away. I could hear the Spirit reminder about honesty and openness, so I surrendered it all – whatever needed to happen- spices getting tossed out, etc., I would be going through the customs line. The “I” of personal identity did not want to “deal with it”, yet the call to truth and following the direction of the Holy Spirit is a priority.

As I stepped forward I placed a bag full of powder on the customs counter. The agent asked, “That’s not cocaine, is it?” I said calmly, “No, it’s a chocolate drink mix, do you want to smell it?” He said, “No”. I said, “I would like to ask you about spices,” and proceed to provide the list of spices I had bought. He said, “That’s fine as long as they aren’t raw food and of course, no cocaine.” I said, “Well, if you have God, you don’t need cocaine.” And he said,

“This is the power of forgiveness.”

What miracle a moment! I thanked him and expressed my happiness at connecting with him that day. A beautiful holy encounter with a happy thought, Jesus is everywhere. So much love. Amen.

Follow follow follow. Forgive forgive forgive. The Kingdom of Heaven is at hand.

Love and gratitude always,

Cay

Customs Counter Holy Encounter2021-04-04T13:04:29-05:00

ACIM Joining in Light in Houston

join in light to remember love

Houston March 17, 2018, 10 am – 3 pm

Join us for a day of going deeper and the direct experience of the power of light to shine through darkness. Download flyer here: JoininginLightMarch12

“You who hold your brother’s hand also hold mine, for when you joined each other you were not alone. Do you believe that I would leave you in the darkness that you agreed to leave with me? In your relationship is this world’s light. And fear must disappear before you now.” (T-18. III.4)

 

Shana Clark

10706 Braewick Dr.

off Hillcroft and Willowbend

713-775-5010

 

Cay Villars

Cay@joininginlight.net

joininginlight.net

608-838-6533

“Yet when two or more join together in searching for truth, the ego can no longer defend its lack of content. T-14.VII.6.

Topics for the Day (others may spontaneously arise!)

  • Holy Relationship and uncovering blocks to Love
  • Contemplative prayer: The power of going empty handed to God - lessons 44 and 188. For revelatory experience. Guided meditation.
  • Sharing miracles
  • Questions and answers - Satsang
  • Discussions and open sharing/experiential sessions.

Please RSVP. We’ll order pizza together for lunch or you can bring your own lunch if you have a food type preference.  The Holy Spirit is not requesting donations or payment for this session. 

This session is offered in gratitude to the Holy Spirit for reminding us of the truth of love’s presence.

ACIM Joining in Light in Houston2021-04-04T13:04:29-05:00
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